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How can you empower your team to provide Unreasonable Hospitality?

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Weโ€™re continuing our discussion of Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Guidara, and so far weโ€™ve started with an opening discussion of your own experiences with exceptional hospitality, and brainstorming how to provide it to your customers. Today weโ€™re talking about creating that culture internally first, and empowering those who work with you.

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A big piece of this book is actually leadership development. The author explains that giving your customers a great experience really starts with first creating a positive culture within your business of kindness, caring, and trust. If you have a partner or employees, enabling and empowering them is key because you canโ€™t provide great service if youโ€™re having organizational or staff issues. He says that if you want to treat your customers well, then you first need to treat your team well, by having logistics down and a great employee culture.

 

The author says that this starts by hiring the right people for your business; not settling for anything less than someone who could become a top contributor on your team. Next, itโ€™s training them to internalize your businessโ€™ mission; taking time to communicate with them in order to inform, inspire, connect, and provide positive reinforcing feedback & praise. Then getting to know their strengths, and assigning them roles accordingly. With that, you can demonstrate trust in them by giving them responsibility and ownership over elements of the business, which they can transform to provide an exceptional customer experience. You worked to hire the best people, now trust their judgment and expertise to help you run your business. 

 

So letโ€™s take these concepts and look inward at your own businesses. Share your reflection to these questions in the comments, and donโ€™t forget to respond to other membersโ€™ messages with your thoughts too! 

 

Weโ€™d love to hear your answer in the comments:

  • How can you train your employees to: 1) internalize the impact your business can have on customersโ€™ lives, and 2) give your customers a deeper level of hospitality?
  • What work and responsibilities, areas of your business can you give ownership over to your team, in service of providing an exceptional customer experience?
  • What is holding you back from giving your employees more control? 
  • How can you systematize giving more positive feedback to your team on a regular basis?  

 

Feel free to share any other thoughts you have about this book. We canโ€™t wait to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

 

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Happy reading,

Pesso

 

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I am really enjoying this book!

 

The places, the people, the status that he has seen!!!!  ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

 

But for real - everything he has to say is so true.  Not just about restaurants.  Any business.  Life in general.  People.

 

Don't we all want to be treated with the highest level of appreciation and respect?

 

Since I spent 30 years in direct sales, I learned a lot... quotes, strategies, methods, positive thinking, etc.  It's all a part of that culture.  You have to find inspo in a lot of different places and you have to pass it along.  You also sometimes have to motivate yourself.  Those things build habits that you carry with you through life, like he says.  My quote that I'm always referencing - you can't eat an elephant all in one bite - came from there.  When you're giving feedback to an employee or in my case, a trainee under me in my business back then, you teach them little snipits of positive thinking and how to replicate what you're doing over and over again.  When things become habits, they stay with you.

 

I like what he says about really getting to know people and learning who they are at their core.  How else would you know that you need to put them into a different position that best suits their skills?  That has really resonated with me, as I've looked at stuff like that for years.  When I'm coaching or mentoring someone, I'm looking for their strengths and comparing that to their what they're struggling with.  Where do they need to make adjustments?  What training do they need?

 

I'm an observant person by nature.  I don't always speak to what I see, but I notice a lot.  It's where my "I'm not bossy, I just know what you should be doing" comes from.  I can see how what you're doing needs to change or predict what is going to fail, in a lot of cases.  So one day, I'm at work at Pizza Hut, back then I was a manager.  I'm watching my new trainee as he pulls the trash and lays his hat on the prep table and goes out the door.  I had no idea at the time that my GM was stading behind me watching.  I stood next to the trash can and waited for him to come back inside.

 

When he came in, I explained to him that he cannot go outside before replacing the bag because he doesn't know if someone is standing there waiting to use that trash can while he's outside.  I also explained that the prep table he put his hat on gets sanitized and cannot touch anything other than food and it had already been cleaned.  Which meant that it now needed to be cleaned again.  I was soft in my explanation, gave him the why behind what we do and he never did either one again.

 

I turned around and jumped when I saw Kevin and he's just smilin'... I had just recently given my notice as I was going full time into business with our first HVAC company and couldn't work there anymore.  He started to say "are you sure you want to leave" and I headed him off at the pass and said "I don't want to hear a word!"  He just laughed.  

 

The point is, when you train your people with the "why we do what we do" they become invested and when you treat them well, they don't want to leave.

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I'm so glad you're enjoying and getting so much out of the book, @CareyJo ! His experiences are seriously impressive, and his insights so helpful. 

 

I love your point about teaching and learning in small bites to become habits -- and especially in training with the why and not just the what. That's such a great example of that, and really shows your strengths! Thanks for the insights! 

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I also really loved that @JTPets posted this thread about training employees to provide exceptional customer service. I highly recommend watching the Pickle video, and responding there too about how to provide great experience and to get your employees to "get it" and live your mission too!

 

And also @Twpchair posted this thread about letting go of control and having your team run more of your business. Such a great conversation and right along these lines!

 

Thank you both for kicking off those conversations, and I'd love to hear your thoughts on these questions too-

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You are amazing and so helpful! I can't thank enough people back here for help, to support, or just venting! This might be the best part of Square! This is just an amazing group of people who are helpful, have knowledge beyond on my attention span but can explain it to me on the easiest level of a stressed day and boom got it. Freak-out mode is Isabelle and Max. They are probably ready to block me lol ๐Ÿ˜† 

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I haven't heard about the Pickle video in years!!  There's another one about the Pike Fish Market in Seattle... just as good!!

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Oooh, would you mind sharing the link to that one too, @CareyJo ?

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For me a lot of this is unscheduled, I make sure to include staff when we are getting praise from customers (as the boss and "star" of the show, customers generally come to me), and I also try and pass on all praise as quickly as possible. One of the reasons we have seen some success at the hotel is that staff are happy and attentive, something which is sometimes problematic for our competitors. If the staff are being praised, they feel better about all of us trying tha touch more. 

 

Probably the biggest thing stopping me giving control is after 7 years, we have never been scared to try something, so for staff who are here 3-6 months, sometimes they want us to try things that we have done before. I try and not stop staff (especially my young manager) from still trying these things, as you don't want them to be scared to try things, but also don't like setting them up for failure. My biggest problem for staff is that they have to be jack of all trades, and some struggle with that amount of info. We aren't busy/big enough to have specific roles, everyone has to be across all aspects, so it's hard for them to remain competent at things they may only do twice a year!  A staff member who left recently, I asked her for feedback on how it was in the new job, and she said we were both more relaxed due to our family and friends atmosphere, but also more stressful, as the new job she has about 3 jobs compared to our 12.

 

I struggle with this, as I find systemising praise completely disingenuous, but am trying to get better at it. As above, sharing praise and good reviews, passing on good comments as soon as possible. I am actually having a staff meeting today, as I have been visiting competitors venues recently, and our baseline is so much better, so want to pass that on.

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Thank you! Ugh I have a great staff who I know can do it and some especially, my guy that's been with since day 1! He does all the total sale, spreadsheets, lets me know how the safe is cash-wise, if im not there he text me about the day. My other employees get 90% of all reviews and 5 stars but me! ๐Ÿ˜† it is ME and the need or guilt of being there versus taking a day off. I tell them publically in the store how amazing they are and even on post I will say whiteout them there is no us! I truly mean that. I just started to open a 2nd business and I am taking 2 with me and I will have Mike my sidekick training the new 2. I have very loyal, trustworthy employees that I can rely on to show up and work. Hopefully, this 2nd store which was supposed to be open Feb 1st didn't happen in Michigan, and 2-3 weeks of zero temps with the wind. But I think this will help me to let go besides its 3 buildings down!!! ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ˜† poor guys!

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That's so wonderful that you always pass along the kudos and make sure to give credit to others too, @ChickenRacer ! 

 

Such a great point about new staff having "old" ideas and that trickiness there -- the author talked about that delicate balance too. 

 

I absolutely understand the necessity for Jack of All Trades employees, and the stresses it can cause. If it has been a point of feedback and has led to issues, are there any new ways you can try specifying some roles in any way? Even if you feel you're not big enough yet, maybe having that many jobs to do means that you might be? 

 

I totally get the idea that systemizing might feel disingenuous -- I think it's worth a shot though! On my team, we started setting aside the first 10 minutes of our bi-weekly team meetings to give eachother kudos and positive feedback, and it's been really wonderful for morale. Even though the time set aside is systemized, the praise itself is not -- it's all optional, no one is forced to say anything, so the praise is all earned and warranted, and feels really good both to give and get! 

 

I'd love to hear how that staff meeting went, if you'd like to share! 

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The meeting went well!  Albeit, it's two staff that have worked for me for 3+ years, so to a degree they have heard it before, and a 19 year old kid who whilst good, was watching tv behind me for the meeting haha.

 

Yeah we are big enough for 5 more staff for 2 weeks, 3 for 8 weeks (albeit in seperate 4 week periods), the right amount of staff for 12 weeks, 2 to many staff for 8 weeks, and the business is unprofitable for the rest of the year so have littlest amount of staff. It's seasonable, so we go alright for the whole year, but makes it hard staffing. We have 8 staff in our peak, and with days off and everything, it means everyone has to do everything, to deal with days off and sick days etc. Because of our remote location, we can't have Part Time staff, but also have to promise people a certain amount of work (ie 3-6 months) so can't get more for the period we need them. The balance of enough staff and timing and not to many is the most difficult thing I deal with probably haha. 

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Well, I am a sole proprietor, so self care is important. I have to remind myself to not be on the computer or available by phone 24/7. I have to take time to rest and just be. I find that if I give myself permission to get a manicure or go to a gallery for inspiration or go paddle boarding in nature, I am more creative and can give more to my clients/customers. 

 

I think that if those with employees give perks - opportunities for socializing together, self-care gifts or just notice and tell them when they're doing things right, they will be loyal and buy into the culture of your business.

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Love this!  So true!  Those of us who are so busy have to be mindful to create time for rest.  If that means you take a Saturday off just for yourself, that's what you do.  One thing we do when we return from our annual vacation is to block out the day after we get home.  It give us a chance to adjust to being at home and prioritize things that need to be handled.  We only call true emergencies that day.  Everything else waits until the next day.  Just because we're the owners does not mean we need to be at people's beckon call 24/7.  Good for you!

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Thank you all for sharing this, @DLFdesigns , @bonny , @Twpchair , @CareyJo ! I agree with all of it so much, and really find that making sure we as owners and our employees are taking time for ourselves pays off tenfold. Especially when we feel like we can't afford that time off.

There's an old saying that goes something like: "Everyday I meditate for 10 minutes, except on busy days. On busy days I meditate for 30 minutes." -- It's the days that you feel like you can't take time for yourself that you most need to. 

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๐Ÿ’ฏ agree!

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I 100% agree! I do have a great team that works hard but also gets along well together. Telling them how great the store looks or what an amazing job they did today is huge. Our customers usually get to them before I do! They are always complimenting them, thanking them for going the extra mile and helping not just deliver the furniture but also take it inside and put their old furniture in the garage. In the winter our town is mostly older adults who didn't head south for the winter. I'm my own worst enemy but since this post so much better and not so high-strung and feel the need to be there 24/7. 

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As a solopreneur, I too have to remind myself to take time off.  I noticed that when I do, I am definitely more creative and overall in a better headspace to give more to my clients so it's a win-win all the way around. 

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1.  If we had employees, it would depend on if they were office or labor.  But in either case, how they speak to the client is key.  You have to watch your tone, how you carry yourself when you speak, how you embrace the conversation and not just give information.  You have to act like you've known this person your whole life and you're just having a conversation with a friend.  People don't want to be treated like a customer.  They want to be treated special, like a friend.

 

2.  See number one, lol.... I don't have anyone to delegate to.

 

3.  Having one ๐Ÿคฃ

 

4.  I may not have a team to give feedback to but I do have a husband who does all the work and I make sure and pass on any great feedback we get from clients about his work.  I had an older gentlemen tell me the other day that he trusts Rich with his life and the door will be open...

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I was thinking of you when writing these questions, @CareyJo , and tried to word it to make sure it works for you too! 

 

I thought you also said you've had some temp folks-

 

Such a great point about keeping things conversational and personal, rather than transactional. 

 

Your husband is absolutely part of the team and I'm so glad that you pass along good feedback, and hopefully he does the same!

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I forgot to mention that I will likely be awol after today... I've got one week left to be ready for our time off and I've got lots to do!  We leave on the 6th and come back on the 20th, so I will likely not check in until the last week of the month, but I will be finishing the book!  If I don't get back on before we leave, I hope everyone has a great month and Happy Valentine's Day!!! โ™ฅ๏ธ

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